Saturday, November 8, 2008

Benedetti family









Grandpa & Grandma































































































California trip ,2008










Uncle Aaron




Aunt Karen




Aaron & Karen






























































































































My Dad




WHY A SON NEED A DAD



  • Who will help his mother.

  • to teach him to be respectful of women.

  • to teach him how to be a gentleman.

  • to help him plan for his future.
  • to teach him to recognize the truth and reward it.
  • to teach him to recognize sincerity and encourage it.
  • to teach him to give more than he takes.
  • to be the standard by which he will later measure himself.





  • to teach hime think about consequences

  • to teach him to take pride in providing for the fmaily

  • to teach him to homor the woman who loves him

  • to teach him that forgiving is always the right thing to do

  • to comfort him when he cries

  • to teach him to be honest at all time

  • to show him the meaning of the word reliable

A SON NEED A DAD




  • who to teach him to be a gracious winner as well as a gracious loser

  • who will help him discover his place in life

  • to help him understand it isn't necessary to be like every else

  • to teach him when to lead and when to follow

  • to show him unconditional love

  • to show him the difference beteen being firm and being stubborn

  • who can play silly




  • to nurture his independence
  • to teach him that respect must be earned

  • to prepare him for being responsible for his own family

  • who will be there for him when he needs help

  • to provide the guidance that will steer him from trouble





  • to show him how to be producive

  • to take him fishing

  • to teach him how to take with girls

  • to teach him to apologize for reckless words

  • to pull him back when he is headed in the wrong direction

  • to listen when others have grown tired of listening





  • to tell him that he is proud of him

  • to teach him to always give a good day's work

  • to encourage him when he meets with disappointment

  • to teach him ttjat ot os wose tp seek advice

  • to help him learn from his mistakes

  • to talk with about the tough decisions he will face





  • to go with him on imaginary adventures

  • to make the famil whole

  • to help him face his challenges with confidence

  • to be a doting grandfather for this children

  • to show him who to control his temper

  • to tell him tht there is no disgrace in losing

  • to show him how to compromise

  • to tell him that all is not hopeless, even when it may seem that it is





  • to teach him how to fix things himself , to take him camping

  • to let him be his equal now and then

  • to help him find his way , to wrestle with him in the grass

  • to teach him that family is more inportant than work

  • to show him patience, to teach him how things work

  • to build a loving house in a foundation of wisdon and understanding






  • to help ease that turdens that weigh heavily on him

  • to give him the gentle pushes that help him grow





  • to teach him he does not always neeed to be in control
  • to tell him it is okay to admit his mistakes
  • to teach him that strength is best expressed with restraint
  • to teach him low to maintain dignity indifficult times







  • who will protect him when he is not strong enough to protect himself

  • to lead him toward faith

  • to ecourage him when he is in doubt of himself



  • to encourage patriotism and civic responsibiliy

  • who welcomes self-expression






  • so that he will have at least one hero he can depend on

  • to share with him the wisdom he has not yet acquired

  • to help him try again after he has stumbled

  • to show him hwo to love others even when it is hard




  • to teach him to treat women with kindness
  • to teach him that men and women are equals
  • to stand with him the day he marries
  • to show him how to be a good husband



  • who will show him that love is unselfish

  • who will not expect the unreasonable from him

  • who will discipline him firmly and fairly while loving him relentlessly

  • who will teach him to avoid selfish temptations



  • to teach him not to use others for his own benefit

  • to provide moral quidance as he becomes a man

  • to urge him to pursue worthy goals

  • to tell him often that he is loved




  • who will expect him to play fair

  • to teach him to stand up for himself

  • to teach him to be accountable for this wrongdoings

  • to tell him that ignorance is not an excues






A SON NEED A DAD

because without him he will have less in his life than he deserves








Mom.